Day 3: From Madrid to the Mediterranean

Last morning in Madrid. Spent it the right way: standing in front of one of the most important paintings ever made. The Museo Nacional Centro de Arte Reina Sofía is the kind of museum where you walk in thinking you will give it an hour and you surface three hours later, blinking, having completely lost track of time. The whole collection is worth the visit. But the main event, the reason you book a ticket to the Reina Sofía, is Guernica.

Picasso painted it in 1937 as a direct response to the bombing of Guernica, a Basque town, by Nazi and Fascist forces during the Spanish Civil War. The painting takes up an entire wall. You cannot photograph it — they are clear about that, and security will let you know — but honestly a photograph would not matter. This is one of those works that requires physical presence. The scale is the first thing that hits you. Then the chaos. Then the individual figures: a horse screaming, a woman holding a dead child, a soldier's broken sword on the ground, a light bulb hanging over everything like a brutal sun. No color. Just black, white, grey. All the suffering of a war that the world was still pretending could be managed, rendered in a single room-sized scream.

I stood there for a long time. Did not take notes. Just looked.

Ornate palace building in Madrid under bright blue sky
The Cybele Palace. This was originally Madrid's main post office, which is the most extravagant thing I have ever heard about mail.

The rest of the Reina Sofía holds up after Guernica, which is not guaranteed — the danger with a headline piece that big is that everything else feels like an afterthought. It does not. Room after room of Picasso's cubist work: guitars, bottles, figures shattered into angular planes, your brain trying to reassemble reality from fragments. Stood in front of one still life for five minutes just trying to decide what I was looking at. That is the point, I think. Cubism does not hand you answers. It gives you a puzzle and lets you sit with not being sure.

Cubist still life painting in muted grey and brown tones at the Reina Sofía
Cubist still life. Bottles, angles, fragments. My brain is still trying to reassemble this one.

The Dalí is enormous. You can see the signature from across the gallery — "Salvador Dalí" in that unmistakable sprawling hand — and when you get close the painting opens up: a distorted white figure stretching against a dark void, a red geometric shape cutting through the middle like a wound. Unsettling in the way the best surrealist work always is. You cannot look away and you cannot entirely explain why. That is the point too.

Large surrealist painting by Salvador Dalí with distorted white figure against dark background
The Dalí. Signature visible from across the gallery. The painting demands the same distance — step back and let it overwhelm you.

Other things that stopped me: a portrait in an ornate gold frame, a woman with dark hair and a direct gaze painted in warm earth tones with a looseness that felt almost contemporary. Two figures with a guitar, angular and blue-grey, the kind of work where you can feel the weight of a Spanish afternoon even though it is all geometry. An expressionist portrait in vivid greens and pinks that looked like it had been made last week. A bronze sculpture head in a white room that made the whole room feel like it was arranged around it.

Portrait painting of a woman in ornate gold frame at Reina Sofía
This portrait stopped me cold. The gaze, the gold frame, the warmth of the brushwork. Some paintings look at you back.
Post-cubist painting of a figure with a guitar in blue-grey tones
Two figures, a guitar, and that particular blue-grey weight of a Spanish afternoon. The Reina Sofía does not let you rush.
Colorful expressionist portrait in vivid greens and pinks
Expressionist portrait. Vivid greens, pinks, and the kind of brushwork that makes you lean in closer.

The Reina Sofía earns its reputation room by room, not just through Guernica. Guernica is why you remember it. The rest is why you go back. After the museum, one last coffee, one last walk through streets where even the post office looks like a palace, and then I said goodbye to Madrid. Two and a half days was not enough. It never would have been. But the train was waiting.

The Train South

The AVE high-speed train from Madrid to Barcelona is one of those things that resets your understanding of what rail travel can be. You board at Madrid Atocha — a station with a literal indoor tropical garden, which should tell you something about how Spain handles infrastructure — find your seat, and within minutes you are cutting across the Castilian meseta at 300 kilometers an hour. The speed display in the carriage showed the number clearly and I watched it the entire time like a kid on a rollercoaster. Three hundred. Sustained. For hours.

The landscape out the window changes slowly and then all at once. Golden wheat fields giving way to rocky outcrops and olive groves. Lines of dark trees running across flat plains like brushstrokes. The light is different out here — flatter, more amber, the particular quality of the Spanish interior that shows up in the old paintings and makes sense the second you see it in person. Two and a half hours for a distance that would take five or six by car. Spain's rail system does not mess around.

AVE high-speed train at Madrid Atocha station
The AVE at the station. Sleek, fast, and about to cross Spain in the time it takes to watch a movie.
Spanish landscape with line of trees and harvested fields from train window
Olive groves and tree lines cutting through the plains. The landscape changes slowly, then all at once.

I did not stay in Barcelona. Not this trip — I was using it as a transfer point. Changed at Barcelona Sants to a regional train heading south along the coast to Sitges, and that thirty-minute ride was where the whole trip shifted register. The terrain changed. The light changed. The Mediterranean appeared in the window, bright and flat and that particular blue that does not look real until you are looking at it. I thought: okay. This is a different thing now.

Sitges

Sitges is a small town about 35 kilometers southwest of Barcelona. Population maybe 30,000. Narrow streets, old stone, a Baroque church on a headland above the beach that has been watching the Mediterranean since the 17th century. There is no obvious reason it should be what it is. And yet this little coastal town is one of the best-known LGBTQ+ destinations in Europe. Bear Week draws guys from every country you can think of. The bars run for a few blocks near the waterfront, dense and unapologetic, and the energy when you step off the train is immediate. It hits you before you even get your bearings.

Madrid was grand. Overwhelming. The kind of city that presses on you with its scale and history and refuses to let you be casual about it. Sitges was something else entirely. Smaller, warmer, looser. A place that has figured out how to be both genuinely historic and completely alive at the same time without the two things fighting each other.

Checked into the hotel. The room was white and tile and sunlight, all Mediterranean. Dropped my bags, opened the window, let the sound of the town come in. Music from somewhere down the street. Voices. The distant hum of a place getting ready for the evening.

Dim, classically decorated hotel room in Sitges
The hotel room in Sitges. Drop the bags, open the window, and let the town drift in.

That first night, the streets were alive in a way that felt different from Madrid's nightlife. Less grand, more intimate. Every bar had its door open. The pride flags went up around every corner. I found a bar sign that made me laugh, went in, and within five minutes understood exactly why people come back to Sitges every year. It is a place that has never needed to perform its queerness because it has always just been this. That ease is rare. When you find it, you recognize it immediately.

Bar sign on a Sitges street
The bar signs in Sitges are not subtle. Neither is the nightlife.
Sitges nightlife street with pride flags and crowds
Flags, crowds, and the kind of energy that starts at midnight and does not stop. First night in Sitges.
Sitges street scene on the first night
Out on the first night. Already knew this place was going to be something special.

Stood on a corner with a drink, music coming from three directions, the Mediterranean somewhere behind me in the dark. Madrid had been the appetizer. This was the main course. I had a full week ahead. Not nearly enough, as it turned out. But I did not know that yet. I just stood there, and let the night happen.

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Michael Eisinger

Michael Eisinger

Program manager, nonprofit founder, and LGBTQ+ travel writer based in Silver Spring, MD. I’ve spent over a decade managing programs across nonprofit, healthcare, and medical education — and another decade finding out where the bears go. I write about travel that’s real, destinations that are genuinely queer-friendly, and the places that changed how I see things.