WanderWill
Chosen family legal toolkit — RUFADAA in 46-48 states but still unenforced in practice, LGBTQ+ couples 10x more likely to be challenged by biological family at end of life, digital assets default to biological family.
Finance & LegalAbout
The Revised Uniform Fiduciary Access to Digital Assets Act (RUFADAA) has been enacted in 46-48 states, but digital platform enforcement is inconsistent — chosen family designees are regularly rejected by platforms that default to biological family. LGBTQ+ couples who didn't legally marry before the Dobbs era, and those in states where marriage equality is now legally contested, face heightened risk of chosen-family legal protections being challenged. Healthcare proxies for LGBTQ+ people are 10x more likely to be challenged by biological family members than equivalent documents for heterosexual couples — not because the documents are weaker, but because hostile biological family with lawyers is a documented pattern. Without a healthcare proxy, medical decisions default to next-of-kin under state law — which in many states means the exact people the person was estranged from. Prince died intestate with no will — $300M estate in litigation for years. WanderWill is the chosen family legal infrastructure layer: documents that hold up, state-specific, with WanderAgent-style vault storage so nothing is lost.
Features
- Healthcare proxy: chosen family designation with enforcement guidance — 10x challenge rate documented
- Durable power of attorney: financial + medical, state-specific, vetted attorney referral
- RUFADAA digital asset directive: covers accounts, crypto, social media — 46-48 states enacted
- Simple will generator: intestate default is biological family — this fixes that
- Trust structure guidance: revocable living trust for LGBTQ+ asset protection
- Pet custody designation: legally enforceable in growing number of states
- Digital estate planning: passwords, accounts, crypto, social media — what happens after death
- State-by-state enforcement notes: which states have challenged chosen family documents
- WanderVault integration: estate documents never lost, designated access on death or incapacity
- Lawyer referral: LGBTQ+-affirming estate attorneys who have litigated biological family challenges